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Q&A: "I want to make an asexual dating app…"

Today's caller has an idea to start her own app for people who identify as asexual (where you don't feel much sexual attraction to anyone). What's the best path forward?

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Long ago we featured the dating app for dog lovers, and that led me to some research in which I discovered all kinds of specialized dating apps. There are several based on religion or background, like J Date or Christian Cafe. There are others for single parents. There's even Farmers Only, which asks, "Single in the Country? Sign up for free to find a farmer, rancher, cowboy, cowgirl or animal lover."

Today's caller has an idea to start her own app for people who identify as asexual. What's the best path forward?

Hi, this is Kathryn and I've been following you for as long as I can remember. I identify as asexual, which is an orientation where you just don't feel much sexual attraction to anyone. It's a common myth that this doesn't exist, and thankfully now there are communities like Reddit where I was able to learn more once I understood this was how I felt.

It's important to note that just because someone is asexual doesn't mean they don't want to have a relationship. Many of us still experience a longing for romantic or platonic relationships, we just don't necessarily want the other parts.

I love our community! We have so many interesting people out there.

I wonder less about making a dedicated app and more about other resources. The cool thing about something like this is that as more awareness takes place, it gets easier and you have to explain less over time.

So even on the existing apps, there are people who identify this way or with another non-traditional orientation and depending on who you are and what you're looking for, you might find it there—since the user base is so much more.

But what other resources could you make, either as an act of service or to become an authority/influencer in this field if you so chose? Obviously not everyone wants that, but there's definitely room for that.

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Well, yesterday we talked about the case of the aggressive alarm, the alarm clock where you have to make a donation to charity if you oversleep. Today, another interesting or let's say unconventional idea, someone wants to make an asexual dating app. So basically they wanna start their own app for people who identify as asexual. This is where you just don't feel much sexual attraction to anyone. There's a big category of people who fit this description and it's the kind of thing where they used to feel really alone because they're like, am I the only person who feels this way?

And now thanks to Reddit and Discord and other social media and just how the world works, they are able to connect with other people out there who have similar experiences. So I think at one point on the podcast, we featured the dating app for dog lovers. There are also all kinds of specialized dating apps based on religion or background. You've got JDate, you've got Christian Cafe. There's an app called Farmers Only, which their branding is like single in the country, sign up for free to find a farmer, rancher, cowboy, cowgirl, or animal lover.

Well, as noted, today's caller wants to start their own app for people who identify as asexual. Why not? And what's the best path forward? Let's talk about it. Detailed question and my answer coming right up.

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Hi, this is Catherine, and I've been following you for as long as I can remember. I identify as asexual, which is an orientation where you just don't feel much sexual attraction to anyone. It's a common myth that this type of person doesn't exist. And thankfully, now there are communities like Reddit where I've been able to learn more about myself. It's important to note that just because someone is asexual doesn't mean they don't wanna have a relationship.

Many of us still experience a longing for romantic or platonic relationships. We just don't necessarily want the other parts. I know this is an ambitious goal, but what do you think about a dating app for people on this spectrum? I've done some coding classes and have some time on my hands since I work remotely for a job that doesn't require a lot of effort. Or if an app seems too complicated, what else would you suggest?

Thanks in advance for any ideas you might have. [Music]

Catherine, thank you so much for calling in. I do wanna say I love our community so much. We've got people out there doing all kinds of things from all kinds of backgrounds. And so let's talk about this idea.

I like Ambition Schools, nothing wrong with that. I wonder a little bit less about making a dedicated app and more about other resources just because to make not just an app, but an app that is a dating app, it requires a certain scale to it. You need to have a minimum number of users before it actually becomes useful. So that can be difficult from a solopreneur perspective. The companies that have succeeded doing this, they tend to have a lot of money to throw out the issue and such.

But what I think is, like I said, less about making a dedicated app, more about other resources because there are a lot of people who identify this way or with maybe an aligned non-traditional orientation. And so what could you make for them, either as an act of service or to become like an authority in this field, if you so choose? There could be guides or other products for sale. There could be websites that have free information, but have an advertising model to support them. Could be something else entirely.

There could be a podcast, right? It could be a podcast or a YouTube channel or something else that builds an audience that way. My idea is, yes, I think an app like this needs to exist and it's hard to do it yourself. I don't wanna discourage you, of course, just like yesterday with the guy who wants to make the aggressive alarm. If it is your vision to do it this way, then Godspeed.

And I wish you every success. But if you just wanna serve a particular community, like the community that identifies as asexual or interested in romantic or platonic relationships, I wonder what else could be done to serve that community. And that's a question I would throw back to you. Love to know how it goes. Listeners, let me know if you have a question, a comment and experience, sidehustleschool.com.

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